Friendship

The Conditions of Friendship | Ibn Juzay al-Kalbī

The Jurist, Ibn Juzay al-Mālikī[1] -May Allāh have mercy on him- said:

“As for the friend, then his conditions are seven:

First, that he be Sunni in his creed.

Second, that he be devout in his religion, for if he were to be an innovator or a sinner, perhaps he may drag his companion towards his ideology, or the people may assume that way about him, for indeed, a person is upon the religion of his companion.[2]

Third, that he be a person of intellect, for the companionship of the foolish is a misfortune.

Fourth, that he be well-mannered, for if he were to be ill-mannered, you would not be safe from his aggression. And test him to see if he gets agitated and if he gets angry then leave off his companionship.

Fifth, that he be sound-hearted both in presence and in absence, not hateful, not envious, not one who desires evil, and not two-faced.

Sixth, that he be firm in his commitment and not uneasy and wavering.

Seventh, that he upholds your rights just as you uphold his rights, for there is no goodness in companionship of one who does not see that you have rights like you see that he has.”

– Al-Qawānīn al-Fiqhiyyah (The laws of jurisprudence), p. 460 – 461

– Translated by Abū Āsiyā Muzaffar – May Allāh forgive him and his parents –


Translator’s Footnotes:

  1. His name is Abu’l-Qāsim, Muḥammad ibn Aḥmad ibn ‘Abdullāh, ibn Juzay al-Kalbī, al-Granāti. He was born in Granada, Andalusia, Spain in the year 693 AH into a family of scholars. He was skilled in a number of areas, including Māliki fiqhḥadīthqirā’ātusūl, poetry, linguistics and tafsīr. He was also known as a skilled and moving khaṭīb and served as an imam and khaṭīb in the largest masjid in his city. He died while fighting in the Battle of Tareef in the year 741 AH.
  2. As it comes in ḥadīth 8028 of Jāmiʿ at-Tirmidhī, with a good chain of narration.

*《شروط الصديق》*

▪قال الفقيه ابن جُزي المالكي – رحمه الله – :

*ﻓﺄﻣَّﺎ اﻟﺼﺪﻳﻖ ﻓﺸﺮﻭﻃﻪ ﺳﺒﻌﺔ:*

*(اﻷﻭﻝ) ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺳُﻨَّﻴﺎ ﻓﻲ اﻋﺘﻘﺎﺩﻩ.*

*(اﻟﺜﺎﻧﻲ)* ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺗﻘﻴًّﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺩﻳﻨﻪ، ﻓﺈﻧَّﻪ ﺇﻥْ ﻛﺎﻥ ﺑﺪﻋﻴًﺎ ﺃﻭ ﻓﺎﺳﻘًﺎ ﺭﺑﻤﺎ ﺟﺮَّ ﺻﺎﺣﺒﻪ ﺇﻟﻰ ﻣﺬﻫﺒﻪ، ﺃﻭ ﻇﻦ اﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻓﻴﻪ ﺫﻟﻚ، ﻓﺈﻥَّ اﻟﻤﺮء ﻋﻠﻰ ﺩﻳﻦ ﺧﻠﻴﻠﻪ.

*(اﻟﺜﺎﻟﺚ) ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻋﺎﻗﻼً، ﻓﺼﺤﺒﺔ اﻷﺣﻤﻖ ﺑﻼء.*

*(اﻟﺮاﺑﻊ)* ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺣﺴَﻦ اﻟﺨُﻠﻖ، ﻓﺈﻥْ ﻛﺎﻥ ﺳﻲء اﻟﺨُﻠﻖ ﻟﻢ ﺗُﺆﻣَﻦ ﻋﺪاﻭﺗﻪ.
ﻭﺗَﺨﺘﺒﺮﻩ ﺑﺄﻥْ ﺗُﻐﻀﺒﻪ، ﻓﺈﻥْ ﻏﻀﺐ ﻓﺎﺗﺮﻙ ﺻُﺤﺒﺘﻪ.

*(اﻟﺨﺎﻣﺲ) ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺳﻠﻴﻢ اﻟﺼﺪﺭ ﻓﻲ اﻟﺤﻀﻮﺭ ﻭاﻟﻐﻴﺒﺔ، ﻻ ﺣﻘﻮﺩًا، ﻭﻻ ﺣﺴﻮﺩًا، ﻭﻻ ﻣُﺮﻳﺪًا ﻟﻠﺸﺮ، ﻭﻻ ﺫا ﻭﺟﻬﻴﻦ.*

*(اﻟﺴﺎﺩﺱ)* ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺛﺎﺑﺖ اﻟﻌﻬﺪ ﻏﻴﺮ ﻣَﻠﻮﻝ، ﻭﻻ ﻣُﺘﻠﻮن
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*(اﻟﺴﺎﺑﻊ) ﺃﻥْ ﻳﻘﻮﻡ ﺑﺤﻘﻮﻗﻚ ﻛﻤﺎ ﺗﻘﻮﻡ ﺑﺤﻘﻮﻗﻪ، ﻓﻼ ﺧﻴﺮ ﻓﻲ ﺻُﺤﺒﺔ ﻣَﻦ ﻻ ﻳَﺮﻯ ﻟﻚ ﻣِﻦ اﻟﺤﻖ ﻣﺜﻞ اﻟﺬﻱ ﺗَﺮﻯ ﻟﻪ”.* اهــ

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